The Humanitarian

The following mini report represents a summarised version your child's Signature Personality. It is one of eight life aspects contained in the Authentic Self Profile Tool. The profile tool has three major categories. Firstly your child's innate talents which the Signature Personally forms part of. Secondly your child's life purpose and thirdly the major behavioural challenges your child will need to master to realise their potential. 

Your child's Signature Personality is their dominant way of responding to the world. Expressing this is key to unlocking their power and potential. Your child's Signature Personality is akin to them signing their signature on everything you do. It is the way they will leave their biggest mark on the world every day. Without its positive daily expression it will be difficult for your child to realise their full potential.

The Humanitarian's natural tendency is to want to help others in some way. It seems like it is built into their DNA. Do not be surprised if they bring home lost pets they want to keep and protect. Teach your child from a young age that trying save everyone is not practical, sustainable and in some cases not the best solution.. 

However there is way for The Humanitarian to live their authenticity without sacrificing themselves and others in the process. This is best achieved when they learn share the burden. This can be achieved in a couple of ways.

Firstly using the lost pet analogy. There are alternatives to keeping and caring for the pet. For example finding another home for it. Somewhere out there is the right owner for that pet. The lesson here is teaching them they do not have to do everything themselves.

Secondly. Teach your child that instead of helping others directly find ways to empower them to assist themselves. Teach them the old saying. Give a person a fish and you feed them for a day. Teach them how to fish and they feed themselves for life. 

When you see your child helping others at the expense themselves support them in finding ways to empower the other person so they can do it for themselves. Teaching your child this early on in life will prevent them from always sacrificing their life and needs for others. It will allow them to realise the true potential of The Humanitarian which is empowering others to be their best version of themselves. 

The greatest fear of The Humanitarian is not being accepted by others. They have a tendency to over burden themselves with the needs and problems of other as a means of gaining acceptance. Often leaving them feeling drained, exhausted and withdrawing from the world as a means of self protection. 

Have frequent empowerment conversations with your child. When you see them doing things for others ask them how they could teach that person to do it for themselves. Teach them at an early age they can be the wise teacher and in doing so truly help others. They want to help because they feel a strong bond with other people. It is almost like they feel at an unconscious level that by helping another they are helping themselves. This is true in may respects. Quantum physics teaches us we are all connected. Your child subconsciously recognises this. You just need to teach them the best form of help is empowering others to do it for themselves. You child will accept this because all they want is for the other person to be okay. You are just showing them a better way to achieve this. 

Humanitarians by nature are intuitive. This is because as mentioned earlier everything is connected and your child knows this. They are able to tap into the thoughts and feelings of others which is why they want to help because they feel others pain. To keep your child out of others pain encourage them to trust their inner knowing so they will know the right way to empower and help others. Support and encourage your child to trust their intuition for it will be their greatest asset in truly assisting others.  

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